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Feeling good should feel easy. We help you find toys that suit your body, your pace and your relationship, with honest advice and discreet delivery.
Easy First Picks
Gentle, simple to use and under $50. A comfortable place to start, solo or together.
New to This?Gentle Places to StartSmall, simple, body-safe toys that make a first try feel relaxed instead of intimidating.Shop Beginner Picks
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For Her
Toys that put her pleasure first, from quiet, palm-sized starters to cult-favorite air-pulse toys. Go at whatever pace feels right.
For Him
Strokers, rings and prostate toys that make it easier to relax and enjoy yourself. Many of the best cost less than a nice dinner.
For Couples
Wearables and app-controlled toys that help you feel closer and try something new together, in the same room or miles apart.
Closer, Even ApartHand Over the ControlsApp and remote toys for date nights in, playful days out and long-distance love.Shop App-Controlled
When You Want to Treat Yourself
Quieter motors, softer materials and builds that last. Three we think are worth it.
Shop Premium Picks
Kiiroo Keon WiFi & Feel Victoria Combo Set – Interactive Automatic MasturbatorKiiroo · Experienced stroker users ready for a hands-free machine.$219.00$269.00
LELO Boomerang Dual Vibrator for Couples – App-Controlled, Waterproof Silicone DesignLELO · Couples who want a premium shared toy with app control.$229.00
Womanizer Next Rechargeable Silicone 3D Pleasure Air Clitoral StimulatorWomanizer · Air-pulse fans upgrading to the brand’s top model.$229.00
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Meet Nightstand Notes
Picked and Explained by People Who Want You to Feel Good.
The Nightstand Notes Editors compare materials, noise, power and price so you can choose without guesswork. We write the way a trusted friend would talk: plainly, kindly and without judgment.
Read Nightstand Notes- The Best Sex Toy Gifts for Her, by Budget and PersonalityGifts that say "this is for you." A safe bet and a bolder pick at every budget, plus the questions that tell you which toy she will love using.
- Sex Toys for Beginners: Where to StartYour first toy should leave you curious and comfortable, not overwhelmed. Start with where you like to be touched, choose body-safe silicone and add lube.
- How to Use Sex Toys With a PartnerWhat to say, which toy to start with and how to bring it into sex the first time, so you both feel relaxed, included and curious rather than awkward.
- How to Clean Sex Toys: Silicone, Glass, Strokers and ElectronicsA clean toy is one less thing to think about. Simple care for silicone, glass, strokers and rechargeables, and what to keep away from them.
Adult Toys That Help You Feel at Ease
The right toy should make you feel more comfortable in your body and more confident asking for what you want. That might be a small bullet vibrator for a first try, a vibrating ring to share with a partner or a quiet vibrator you can relax with at home.
Every product here is sold and shipped by our retail partner in plain packaging. We focus on body-safe materials, brands that stand behind their products and honest notes on what each toy does well. Pair any toy with a water-based lube and you are ready to go.
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